NO Dogs ALLOWED in the car
From: Dr Andrew Jones
Author: Veterinary Secrets Revealed
Website: http://www.theonlinevet.com
Re: She WON’T let ‘the dog’ in the car..
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Hello faithful subscribers, and a happy Wednesday to you all.
As you all may know, I am currently visiting my In-Laws in Nova Scotia.
They are wonderful people, and pretty easy to live with.
But they have one NEW issue which is driving me a little crazy, and I am wondering what some of you may think of it.
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NO Dogs EVER
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They recently bought a NEW car.
Shiny
Good on Gas
It smells NEW
and NO Dog Hair.
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The NEW rule
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My Mother-In-Law has decided that she doesn’t want the dog to EVER be in the car.
LIKE no dog ever.
It sucks for their dog Mackie.
And for her husband. He used to take Mackie for big walks at various parks.
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What the %%%#########***@@@####?
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SO my opinion is that this is a CRAZY ‘rule’ – This is one thing that I would NEVER agree to, and I am not one to get into In-Law marital therapy.
In fact my blood boils a little, and I don’t come over sounding too sane.
I would love to hear your ideas on How to get Mackie back in the car.
Post to your hearts content (click the comments link below)…
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P.S. I just DON’T get some stuff and how that would EVER seem reasonable. That really isn’t a great quality of life for any dog, if all you do is hang around the house eating and sleeping.
Kind of like jail.
Any ideas to break Mackie out of jail?
Share them here – click the Comments link at the end of this article!
It’s Your Pet…Heal Them At Home!
Best Wishes,
Dr Andrew Jones, DVM
My husband says the same thing about his truck, no dogs. Well, my SUV is a dog mobile, they are always with me. As far as I am concerned, and I told him, no husbands in my SUV. End of discussion.
Sounds like your SUV has the right passengers already. Happy dogs, happy driver, and that is a pretty good travel team if you ask me.
I think that your father in law should speak seriously with his wife and convince her !!
if she stuck to her opinion he should threaten her by selling the new car !!!
we dont breed pets only for our comfort ..
their rights and comfort should take its place too..
Our pets deserve to be treated like family, not furniture. A good conversation usually goes a lot further than threats though. Here’s hoping they can find a solution that keeps everyone, especially the dog, happy and comfortable.
no offence meant, but some people are lucky they have nothing else to worry about, than making petty rules. im sure the lady in question is very nice but…if she only had 6 months to live…i think her way of looking at this, would be very different.
Perspective really does have a way of changing what feels important. At the end of the day, a little kindness and a little grace usually go a lot further than arguing over the small stuff.
There are a LOT of products on the market for car protection – car seats for small dogs, seat covers and things of that nature for larger dogs. Of course I think it’s not reasonable to say no dogs in the car as I regularly take all four of mine in my new car on a regular basis. They each have a car seat to ride in – good protection for them and me as well as keeping the car neat and clean.
I say that rule is not a solution to keeping that New Car Smell alive!
Safe pups, clean car, and everyone enjoys the ride. That sounds like a win all around. I am all for making car trips safer and a whole lot less hairy. Thanks for sharing what works for your crew!
Well whose car is it? Who paid for it? If father-in-law did then he rules the roost and Mackie can be taken wherever. Perhaps Mom-in-law should be left at home for a couple of weeks, never taken out and about and see how she enjoys it…..
Alternatively, there are blankets, rugs, plastic seat liners which can be used to protect the car from dog hair etc.
Hope she changes her mind!!
I am all for finding a solution that keeps everyone happy. A good seat cover works wonders, and a clean car plus a happy dog is definitely possible. Fingers crossed they find a compromise because more adventures are always better with your best friend.
Never say never… I would let the newness wear off and I would purchase a pet porter to trasport Mackie in and maybe put a Dixie kennel cover on the porta-kennel. Mud River makes a great product that keeps the dog(hair) in the kennel. Otherwise a backseat hammock or canine cover would also protect the investment(car) from Dog hair and dog while still allowing Mackie his freedom.
A good pet carrier or a backseat cover can make life a whole lot easier while keeping Mackie safe and the car looking great. Sounds like a win for everyone, especially Mackie.
Trade in the wife for another car to take the dog to the dog parks and let him walk.
Love Me, Love My Dog.
he dog would probably vote for more walks and park time every single time. Everyone wins with a happy pup and a happy family.
Can’t believe this. I bought my van just for the dogs. Anyway, put a slip cover over the seat for the dog – should take care of any hairs. Come on now – animals are family, at least in my house they are. Tell father-in-law to put his foot down.
Dogs are definitely family in my house too. A good seat cover works wonders and keeps everyone happy. Sounds like your pups picked the right van!
Why doesn’t she get a doggie car seat. Depending on Mackie’s breed and size they can be found all over the internet in diffrent styles. They could make up the rule that if Mackie is a sheader, that sweet hubby usesbrush before the ride and a sticky roller on the seats after Mackie has been in the car.
Sure, a comfy dog car seat can make travel a lot easier for everyone. And I like the brush before the ride idea too. A little fur management goes a long way. Mackie gets the adventure and the car gets a fighting chance.
Hello Andrew I have 4 dogs every time I go out in the car at least 1 dog comes with me why? apart from the company, they are more of a deterent than any electronic car alarm (people usually ignore them anyway )car thieves opportunity thieves (smash window to grab purse/camera/whatever left on the seats )a dog in the car will put these people off.
A new car! its metal,rubber and upholstery after a few months it is just another immaterial possession your dog who loves you unconditionally deserves to be treated as such.
Best Wishes Andrew Frank in the U.K.
Love that perspective. Dogs definitely make great travel buddies, and most thieves will think twice when they see a watchful pup. Just be sure they’re safe and comfortable, especially on warm days, since cars can heat up much faster than most people realize. Give your four co pilots a pat from me!
Put Mackie in the car and go…. Why would you be ruled by someone…. Mackie apparently rode in the old car…so Mackie should ride in the new car….
That said, some pets really do need a little time to warm up to a new car. A few treats, short fun rides, and a bit of patience can make all the difference. Mackie will get there.
Once the newness wears off, Mackie will be back in the car….however, I don’t see why she can’t put a blanket on the seat….I think the husband should put his foot down…let her know that if he can’t take Mackie to the park anymore, then it now becomes her responsibility to take him for walks otherwise how will he get rid of all that pent up energy? (running around the house maybe)….OR the husband should tell her he’s going to buy a vehicle just for him and the dog…that’ll get her going!!!…who wears the pants in this house anyway?….
A simple blanket or seat cover can make everyone happy, and regular walks are definitely important for burning off that energy. Hopefully they find a solution that keeps both the car and Mackie in good shape.
Your father-in-law should offer to get Mackie groomed each week or offer to bathe and groom him each week. There are load of doggie products available that cover car seats. He could also offer to launder the cover each week and also be willing to clean and vacuum the vehicle after each car ride if necessary. If Mackie is secured with a car harness and seat belt specifically made for dogs, he would not “roam” the car and spread fur (and maybe slobber) anywhere but his area, so clean up would be pretty easy. Then he needs to follow through so his wife knows he is serious with taking care of Mackie’s happiness and hers as well. Perhaps he could also offer to take over doing a chore that she normally does, but hates? Nothing says love like “here, let me do that for you, I don’t mind at all.”
Practical solutions and a little teamwork can go a long way. A clean car, a well groomed Mackie, and sharing the chores sounds like a win for everyone.
Hello,
I think this is outrageous and selfish….that’s why we clean out our cars. Dog hair on the seat and dog slobber stains on the window are not permanent. And there are nifty seat protectors you can buy for very little money, really. They are contoured blankets/covers that fit in the back seat and protect the upholstery, I’m sure you’ve seen them if you don’t already use them for your dog. Is this such a big deal? Maybe if you purchase one for your Mother-in-Law she will agree to letting the dog in the car. Drs. Foster and Smith have a great line of them — and if she doesn’t agree to it, well…it’s just plain selfish. I do hope your poor Father-in-Law gets the right to drive his dog in the car that is half-his. Then again, maybe he needs to get a used car for the dog and him. It’s terrible to put it in those terms, but when people are inflexible it leads to the “hers and his” line of thinking. It also explains where your wife got her ideas about dogs….it really does run in families. Good luck with this issue — it would boil my blood to have to deal with it.
I can definitely see where you’re coming from. A good seat cover really does make a big difference and keeps cleanup simple. At the end of the day though, every family has to find a solution that works for everyone. Hopefully they can meet somewhere in the middle so both the dog and the humans are happy.
You (or maybe someone else!!)could point out to your mother-in-law that her hubby’s going to be under her feet a lot more often,if he doesn’t get to take Mackie out to the parks like he used to!
And good seat covers for the car!!!
Now that is some solid motivation! And yes, a good seat cover is worth every penny. Here’s hoping Mackie is back to those park adventures again soon.
I recently bought a terrific back seat cover for my SUV that is waterproof and slick enough NOT to accumulate hair……which if used along with a doggie seat belt would keep Mackie right where they want him……. that and a little Oust, should do the trick.
A waterproof cover plus a doggie seat belt is a great combo for keeping pups safe and making cleanup so much easier. Love a simple solution that keeps everyone happy.
I read a lot of stuff these days that they are tightening laws on dogs in cars and some states are going to require some kind of restraint. I don’t do this personally (yet) but some experts are recommending you crate your dogs in the backseat (as the front seat if the airbag deploys could be dangerous.) Could that be an option? I don’t see how having the crate in the car would cause that much mess.
I do agree it’s crazy though. That poor dog. In the end is the new car more valuable than an animal that loves you unconditionally?
A secured crate can be a really good option for many dogs. It helps keep them safer during travel and can make cleanup much easier too. At the end of the day, our pets are family, and keeping them safe is always worth it.
I, too, bought a new car and don’t want my dogs in it. BUT, I kept my old car so they could still go bye-bye. It is all I use it for.
As far as your mother-in-law, I am sure as time goes on and the new car breaks in, Mackie will be allowed to ride in it. He just needs to be patient. First with a blanket on the seat…
Now that is some serious pet parent planning. I love that your old car has become the official dog mobile. And I think Mackie would happily vote yes to the blanket idea. One paw at a time.
I have a 8 years black lab and a brand new camry,the dog loves car rides and going to the lake—let him ride in the car—no question, the answer is YES! I have an old blanket, cover the back seat and off we go, if the seat gets dirt from the dog, wipe it off, clean off the dog hair, Let the dog enjoy the car with the rest of the family, the car will get old regardless.
Sounds like you’ve got your priorities just right. Memories with your Lab will last a whole lot longer than a spotless back seat. Toss down a blanket, enjoy the ride, and make every trip an adventure. Give your lucky pup a belly rub from me!
Hi Andrew,
I fully agree with you! I am not sure how big her new car is but over here in Sweden we tend to use dog crates – in the boot or back of the estate cars – as this is the safest way for a dog or pet to travel. It also means that however dirty, wet or smelly the dog gets while out on his walk, it stays within the dog crate and does not go anywhere in else in the car. It has also been proven that it saves the pets lives shoild they be involved in a crash, so it really does make a big difference to travelling with animals.
Hope this helps.
Cheers
Vips – owner of two german sheppards, 3 persian cat ladies and two lion rabbits:)
Great points. A properly fitted crate is one of the safest ways for many dogs to travel, and I love the bonus of keeping the car clean after a muddy adventure. Sounds like your crew keeps life fun with two German Shepherds, three Persian cats, and two lionhead rabbits. That is quite the family!
You are to darn funny!!!
Maybe “Mom-in-law” would agree for Mackie to be transported in a vari kennel or a fold up nylon kennel. That way the hair and dirt etc would stay contained. Mackie SHOULD be in a kennel anyway, for her safety.
LOVE your newsletters. They always make me smile in the morning!
Kp
You just made my day. I think Mackie might have to start practicing her “happy kennel” routine. Safer for her and a lot easier on everyone else too. Thanks for reading the newsletters and for starting your mornings with me. Give your furry family a hug from me!
I have four small dogs and am quite fussy about my car too BUT I have a ‘pet car rug’ which attaches to the back seat and back of back seat. GREAT!!! NO HAIR!!!!
A pet car rug is such a simple solution and it saves a ton of cleanup. Happy dogs, clean car, everybody wins! Thanks for sharing your tip.
Oh, man. Is there anything that a few towels and/or waterproof materials (such as tarpaulin) can’t handle?
For 13 wonderful years, I had a 101-lb (no, he was not overweight) Golden Retriever who got car-sick every single time he was in a car. No kidding. Yes, I asked several vets what to do, but none of the techniques worked. He genuinely suffered from motion sickness. There was nothing emotional about it. In any case, I had just started seeing the man in my life and he had just gotten a new car. Now, this man (whom I’ll call H)is obsessive about his cars. The way some people groom their pets, that’s the way H grooms his cars. I’m not exaggerating. H also had a place in the country which was about an hour away from his house and an extra half-hour from mine. H wanted to spend every weekend there. You see where I’m headed. That was way too long for Bailey to be in a car. Even with gravol, which I hated to give him, but had to do, sometimes. Now, H may love his cars, but he also loves animals, so the compromise was this: we covered the back seat of the car and the floor with plastic tarpaulin — the stuff you use for painting. Then we covered the tarpaulin with towels, so Bailey would be comfortable. We did stop along the way and let Bailey recover but, sometimes, there was just no way to prevent him from getting sick. But, the towels and the tarpaulin (and lots of bags and paper towels, etc.) did the trick. Believe it or not, we got used to all of this. H used to call Bailey “Goobs” because he drooled so much. So, we referred to all the equipment necessary to transport Bailey as “Goobware.” The Goobware (and, yes, a lot of vacuuming) made it possible. And, I’m pretty convinced that H went to all that trouble because he knew that I wouldn’t spend those weekends with him without Bailey. Now, I’m not suggesting threatening, per se, but your father-in-law should assert his right to have his companion with him (while agreeing to do the cleaning). After all, dirt can be removed, hair can be vacuumed, but shiny and new cannot replace love and companionship. Cars depreciate but companions never do!
For dogs with true motion sickness, even the best planning does not always stop the drool or the cleanup. Sounds like you and H found a solution that let Bailey stay part of the adventure, and that is what really matters. Companionship is worth a few extra towels every time.
I see both sides of the fence here. It’s a new car, and I can understand wanting to preserve as much as the new-ness as one can. That being said, Mackie is a MEMBER OF THE FAMILY!!!! Would she not allow FAMILY to ride in the car?!?!
There are plenty of things you can do to protect/prepare the inside of your vehicle when your pet needs to ride with you.
Travel Taxi’s (travel kennels) are wonderful! There are also special harnesses that mimick a carseat which also means your family pet is buckled up for safety, depending on his size! You can also place a towel/blanket on the seats of the car to prevent the dogs nails from puncturing the seats, as well as a lot of dog hair from going everywhere…Also, if the dog smells, that’s a pretty good indication that he needs a bath. Until that happens, never underestimate the power of Ozium!
I have leather seats in my car, and I also have an English Mastiff and a 4 1/2 year old little boy. We had a Neo/Bull Mastiff that was 135 lbs before him! I prefer for our Mastiffs to ride in the truck whenever possible, but when it doesn’t work out that way I have to do the best I can to protect my car AND still be Mommy to my babies! –That’s just part of having a family, IMO.
Honestly, she needs to keep in mind that she is a dog owner (whether “the dog” is “hers” or not), and as a responsible dog owner, she needs to accept that sometimes “the dog” needs transportation, end of story.
A little planning goes a long way. A seat cover or crate can help protect the car, and a good harness keeps everyone safer too. At the end of the day, our dogs are family, and sometimes family needs a ride.
Sounds very familiar. I’ve been a Realtor in NC for almost 25 years. The car I take people to look at houses in has never had a dog or car in it. From pet allergies to cleaning time beweeen, this is our choice. Sometimes my customers bring their animals along so this becomes an issue then. However most times when I must take children, car seats, etc I would rather have pets. We have four dogs, two cats and foster animals. I recommend people take focus time and leave the pets and children with sitters or home. We’ve had as many as 11 at one time in our pack. However we solved this delima with having a second vehicle. At present it is a used SUV with crates. We slso shuttle other neighbors animals to the vet when needed, especially for the elderly and disabled. The second vehicle can be an old clunker as long as it is reliable enough not to leave you and your pets stranded. If possible walk the dogs locally or invest in a “dog mobile”. Everyone will live happily ever after.
You found a solution that works for everyone. A dedicated pet vehicle is a great idea if it’s an option, especially with crates for safe travel. And a big thank you for helping your elderly and disabled neighbors get their pets to the vet. Your furry crew is lucky to have you.
At age 65, I have my very first, brand new car. It’s a hybrid and small compared to the van I traded-in. Yesterday, I had to take our 6 yr old, 6 pound yorkie in to be rechecked, after the Vet found enlarged lymph nodes when he extracted 3 infected teeth. He was put on an antibiotic for 10 days before I took him back yesterday. The nodes were as lg as before. A needle biopsy revealed 75% large cells/cancer and 25% normal appearing cells. Simba rode to and from the Clinic with his seatbelt on in the back seat (an airbag deployment would kill him in the front). If I had to chose between my Simba and my first-ever new car…………there’s no question. Simba is way better than any THING. Perhaps your in-laws need to get their priorities in order. I wonder how they’d feel if they’d just gotten this type of news?
That is such tough news to receive. He is lucky to have someone who loves him the way you do. And I have to agree, our pets are family, not things. Wishing you and Simba lots of strength and hoping you get many more happy moments together.
No Dogs Allowed??? Sounds like my sister-in-law, Cathy. My brother had a beautiful little Eskimo Spitz who he loved very much when he married Cathy. She tolerated the dog for a very short time, but I noticed that every time my brother would pet the dog, she would become insanely jealous and call him away to attend to something for her. Suddenly she developed a deathly “allergy” to the dog and my brother had to get rid of it. My mother, who lived with us, took the dog. We hd 2 of our own at the time, so we ended up with 3 dogs. (Funny, Cathy seems to manage just fine when she visits her daughter who has always had a dog.)
Here’s a couple of ideas.
1. What if one of your kids were to “accidentally” spill, say a milkshake or an ice-cream sundae with caramel topping, all over the NEW CAR! Quite a mess…….could ruin that ‘new’ feeling, eh? Maybe a dog wouldn’t be so bad.
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2. Tell her that having a dog in the car is better protection for her, since it would discourage criminals.
I don’t understand why some people are more concerned about making a show of their possessions than about making their ‘loved ones’ happy. Sounds a bit selfish to me.
Take care, and have a good day!
CJ
Ontario
Sounds like that little Spitz landed in the right home in the end. I had a chuckle at your milkshake idea. That is one way to put a new car into perspective. And yes, a happy dog is often the best travel buddy and sometimes even a pretty good security system too. Thanks for sharing your story and for the smile!
It’s hard comprehend this. There will be many more cars but only pet. If the pet is clean enough to come in the house it is clean enough to get in the car, so just throw a blanket or some sort of cover on the seats…It isn’t going to live in the car. (Our Yorkie has a water bowl, and food dish on the seat beside her heated bed. So, you have see my point of view. Best of luck in taking care of the problem..
Thanks for sharing your perspective. I get where you’re coming from. For a lot of us, our pets are family and the car is just another place they get to tag along. A good seat cover or blanket can make cleanup easy, and everyone wins. Thanks for adding to the conversation!
Sorry if this comes off a bit sexist, but unless your mother-in-law purchased the car with funds she had outside the marriage, it would seem that at least half that new car belongs to your father-in-law and therefore, he has a much right to decide who/what rides in it as she does. Assuming that Mackie is bathed regularly and doesn’t harbor a “dirty dog” smell, he shouldn’t be penalized either. There are numerous types of blankets made to cover automobile seats that can be purchased to make sure Mackie isn’t in direct contact with the new upholstery. It’s only a car for Pete’s sake; Mackie is a member of the family.
A good seat cover really is a simple fix that keeps everyone happy. At the end of the day, every family has their own house rules, but I think we can all agree that dogs are family too.
I agree with Dr Andrew that not allowing your dog in your car is like keeping them a prisoner at home. You should not do this to a family member. I consider my dogs as part of the family and I do not keep any family member out of my car no matter how new it is. If your mother in law must do something then cover the seat the dog will be on with a blanket that can then be taken out of the car and washed for the next use.
Our dogs are family, and they deserve to be part of the adventure. A simple blanket or seat cover keeps everyone happy, including the car. Sounds like a win all around.
While I understand not wanting dog hair all over the new car, there are lots of ways to have the best of both worlds. Pack a lint brush, some Febreeze and grab a blanket, spread it over the back seat and let Mackie hang out and be a part of the family. She needs to be out and about and not cooped up in the house sleeping all the time. I hope the rest of your vacation goes smooth. It sounds like everyday is a new challenge! Keep up the great work!!!
I agree, a good blanket and a lint brush can work wonders. Mackie definitely enjoys being part of the action when she’s feeling up to it. We just take it one day at a time and let her set the pace. Really appreciate the kind words and encouragement!
Get rid of the Mother-in-law – keep the dog – that is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard of – NOT allowing the dog in the car! I have 4 dogs and I take them “bye-byes” every day .. they RUN to the car and jump in whenever I tell them we’re going. Your Father-in-law needs to stand up to the Mother-in-law and tell her the the dog IS going in the car and if she doesn’t like it – she can walk! 🙂
I love how passionate you are about the dogs. For a lot of pups, a car ride is the highlight of the day. Sometimes family dynamics can be trickier than dog training though. Hopefully they can find a solution that keeps both the people and the pup happy. Thanks for sharing the laugh!
hi Andrew i feel so sorry for Mackie tell your in law to put a sheet over the sit at the back and that is not a problem no hairs on seat and tell this in law to come down to earth. its only a car its just 4 wheels my dog gem goes in both our cars and she is a jack Russell lots of hair i just clean the cars out and i am 74 no problem because my dog is my family pat
I agree, our pets are family. A simple seat cover can make cleanup so much easier. Mackie is worth a few dog hairs any day. Give Gem a big hug from me!
Tell you father-in-law that all he needs to do is spill something in the new car that is worse than “dog hair”. That will take the “NEW” out of the car and the mother-in-law won’t be so picky about the dog riding in the car. This will work, as my husband did it to me….
Once the first spill happens, the dog hair suddenly does not seem like such a big deal. I might have to pass that tip along… purely for educational purposes, of course!
This would definitely be a ‘love me, love my dog’ time to lay down the law if I were your father-in-law! haha Of course there are compromises like does he have another vehicle he could take the dog to the park in and if not he could cover the back seat and promise to keep the car vacuumed out. But to me she should not expect to change the rules everyone has lived with until now! That’s not fair in any aspect of marriage!
A good compromise usually keeps both the relationship and the dog happy. A seat cover and a quick vacuum can go a long way. Sometimes everyone just needs to meet in the middle, especially when there is a happy pup involved.
Gift certificate to a full service car wash? A second car for dad and dogs? My wife needs her car for business but isn’t against having our dogs in it. She and the carwash people are on a first name basis. When I show up with my Jeep the word is passed quickly, “The furmobile is here”. They try to hide. Good luck, and remember, women sometimes change their minds.
That gave me a good laugh. Sounds like your pups have claimed that Jeep fair and square. A car wash gift card might just be the most practical Father’s Day gift after all. Wishing you, your wife, and your furry crew many more fun adventures together.
I think they should have 2 cars. If Mrs.wants her way with THEIR car, then Mr. should have a car to put the family dog in to go places they love. I always buy my new cars with leather interior so there are no worries. I still keep a blanket in back for them to sit on.
Having a dog friendly car definitely makes life easier. Leather seats and a blanket are a great combo. Less stress about the mess and more time enjoying the adventure together.
WHATZ UP WITH THOSE FOLKS !
Their wires are shorting out…
seems like their material world is more important than the live world around them…
guess they did not find out yet that cars, homes etc do not give to a person ..they only take ..
It is Nice to have a new car a new house..but hese are just things they can be cleaned modified and what have u…u can even buy fragrance **NEW CAR **smell..
Time for a priority check for these people…
HOPE UR DAY WILL B OKAY 🙂
Patricia
I could not agree more. Our pets do not care what we drive or where we live. They just want our time, our love, and maybe a few extra treats. Wishing you and your furry family a wonderful day too!
I use a seat cover or blanket in my van. Your father-in-law could also suggest he’ll vacuum his wife’s vehicle if that will help. Or better yet, use his own vehicle to keep the peace. I don’t agree with his wife, but he has to live with her!
A little vacuuming can go a long way toward keeping everyone happy. Sometimes the best pet health tip is also a good relationship tip.
How can anyone love an object more than a loving pet? This woman should seriously give her head a shake. If she is this irrational and won’t let a “family” member – and that’s what Mackie is – in the car, I suggest dad get a small used car and let a “selfish” mom have her precious new car. She is being very childish and inconsiderate. Besides, the car already depreciated by several thousand $$ when they drove it off the lot!
Our pets are family to so many of us. At the same time, every family has to find what works for them. Hopefully they can find a solution that keeps both Mackie and everyone else happy.
What happens when Mackie needs a trip to the vet?
Has she thought about that, or does the vet make house calls?
If Mackie ever needs more than I can handle at home, a trip to the vet is absolutely the right call. Holistic care and conventional veterinary care work best as a team. The goal is always doing what’s best for your pet.
My husband used to be like that – nothing in the car – but he grew to love the “girlies” and realized that they enjoyed going for rides – especially when we would go to the Mountains when it snowed. We would always take my car, but now my husband doesn’t have a problems using his car! My reasoning has always been that people shed hair and other unmentionable stuff and that is part of life, otherwise, life would be pretty boring! Pray that she open her heart!
Funny how the biggest skeptics can end up being the biggest softies. Once you see how much joy a simple car ride brings them, a little fur just feels like part of the adventure. Here’s hoping her heart melts too. Pets have a pretty amazing way of making that happen.
he needs to stop being pussy whipped.
the car is half his, isn’t it? get her to buy him out of his half and use the money to get another car he can take the dog in. also,build the woman a new dog house outside, and tell her to stay in it and be excluded from the family and see how she likes it.
or get a divorce and remarry someone else who is FUN.
The goal is finding a solution that keeps everyone happy, especially our four legged family member. A little kindness and compromise usually goes a lot further than a trip to divorce court.
First of all, I can’t IMAGINE a feeling person choosing car over the health and happiness of their beloved dog. But then, maybe the dog was more “his” idea. My hubby is a professional keyboardist and keeps the heavy instruments in his van. Dog hair not a good component. So I have my “beach dog car” generally full of sand and dog hair, perhaps a bit smelly ( though I do have a mesh bag of volcanic rock that seems to absorb most of the odor.)It often looks rather “real” with sand, toys,doggie coats, blankies, and water bowl, but I think it is a great break-in deterrent when I parked in remote areasand out playing with the dogs. One look and the bad guy says “No way.” 🙂
We are happy and my sweetheart doesn’t grumble about the fur… in the house either! He’s a keeper.
Maybe a second, “doggie” car is the answer for your folks?
Sounds like you found the perfect setup. A dedicated dog car and a hubby who embraces the fur? That is a winning combo. Plus I have to admit, a car full of dog toys and blankets probably is a pretty good security system too! Give your pups a scratch behind the ears from me.
Sorry- I would NEVER be with someone like this! What if the dog has to go to the vet? What if they move? will they just leave the dog in the back yard to die? I just can’t imagine this kind of attitude. I sure hope they have another car.
as has been noted- there are a lot of products to protect cars!
Since there is already a dog there- this suggestion is not as useful but for future dog selections I would tell them to consider one of the non-shedding breeds like a Poodle- but they would have to realize all the non-shedders also need a lot of grooming.
Personally I think people like this should marry other people like this. one of my requirements when I was dating was that he like dogs and pets in general. He is not as into pets as I am but he does love them and even is fine with them in our bed! I consider myself lucky (or rather SMART because I would never have considered a relationship with someone that didn’t want to LIVE with our pets.
Finding someone who loves pets certainly makes life a whole lot easier. And yes, seat covers, hammocks, and a good vacuum can work wonders for keeping the car looking great while the dog still gets to come along for the ride. Win win!
The car will eventually get “christined” one way or the other. She should get over it, allow her husband and the dog to enjoy the same quality of life they used to have, and stop being so materialistic, as well as selfish. Love her husband and dog more than an inanimate object.
At the end of the day, a happy dog and a happy family matter most. A few paw prints and a little fur are usually a pretty small price to pay for all the love they bring.
Dr. Dr. Jones,
I just recently began reading your articles and I am ‘thrilled’ to hear you use “natural” remedies.
I also read this mornings message about Mackie not being able to ride in your mother-in-laws car. My mother-in-law too, had an issue with ‘any’ dog in her Crown Vic.
Well, one day, our dog Odie (Jack Russell) who just LOVES to ride, jumped in her car without her noticing when she had opened her drivers side door and was ‘standing’ talking.
By the time she was finished talking, she climbed in Odie poked his head between the arm rest as if to say, “Okay, I’m ready, lets go!”
She screamed and didn’t know what to do. She couldn’t get him out of the car. She had to drive him to her house in order for him to get out. Hahahaha. Well, needless to say, Odie had a very special place in her heart and she never hesitated giving him a ride again.
I also want to make a suggestion to you if I may. As a professional person dealing with the public, I do not find the word “suck” or %#$% (in place of cuss words), necessary to get one’s point across. I don’t believe your lack of words in our vocabulary the case.
Sincerely,
Dorene, farmer
I had a good laugh picturing Odie making himself right at home and deciding the ride was happening whether anyone agreed or not. Sounds like he knew exactly how to win your mother in law over.
I also appreciate your thoughtful feedback. Point taken, and thanks for sharing it so kindly. I’m always trying to connect with people while staying true to myself, and I do appreciate hearing different perspectives.
Give Odie an extra belly rub from me!
My son has a chocolate lab who I like to take in my car occasionally. Lately I’ve brought him down to the ocean where he can go in the water to cool off. Needless to say, it stirs up some dirt. No big deal – I have a folded flannel sheet that I fold up and place in the back seat for Riley to sit on. He’s happy and I’m happy. The sheet gets washed as needed and the car stays relatively clean.
Love it! Simple, practical, and it works. Riley gets a beach day, you get a cleaner car, and everyone wins. That sounds like a pretty good deal to me.
Time for a new owner. There are people out there who love dogs more than their cars.
Terry
It is always tough to see a dog put in that kind of situation. Here’s hoping this pup ends up with the love and care they deserve.
This is ridiculour, has she ever heard of brushes, blankets,kennels?? Last week, it was her daughter, your wife!. I guess it runs in the family.
We all have different ways of caring for our pets, and that’s okay. My goal is simply to share practical tips that help keep dogs healthy, happy, and safe. Thanks for being part of the conversation.
THIS IS A SIMPLE FIX THE CAR SMELL IS THE BIG PROBLEM NOW THIS IS NOT THE CORRECT WAY TO DO THIS BUT IF IT WAS IN MY MOTHER IN LAWS RULE AND WOULD NOT CHANGE HER MIND I WOULD CHANGE IT FOR HER I WOULD TAKE SMALL PICE OF LIMBURGER CHESSE AND JUST ALONG THE EDGE OF THE DRIVER SEAT RUB JUST A LITTLE ON THE BOTTOM EDGE OF THE SEAT TO MAKE HER THINK THAT SHE HAD STEPPED IN SOME DOGGIG DO AND DRUG IT IN THE CAR NOW WHEN SHE GETS THROUGH WITH LOOKING FOR A FEW DAYS TO FIND OUT NO DOGGIE DO IN CAR OR ON SHOES AND NEW CAR SMELL IS LOWERED I WOULD SAY WELL MAYBE YOU CAN LET THE DOG IN THE CAR NOW THAT THE NEW CAR SMELL IS GONE THEN WHEN SHE GIVES IN I WOULD GO OUT TO CAR AND CLEAN OFF THE BOTTOM EDGE OF THE SEAT AND THE CAR CAN HAVE THE DOG SMELL IN CAR AS ITS NOT AS BAD AS THE CHESSE SMELL ..PS THIS WORKS NEW CAR SMELLS ARE NICE AND ANYONE THAT HAS A PROBLEM WITH NOT TAKING YOUR BEST FRIEND WITH THEM TO WHEREVER NEEDS A LITTLE PUSH IN THE CORRECT WAY WITHOUT GETTING INTO A FIGHT OVER IT CURE THE SMELL AND THE REST WILL FALLOW THANKS FOR THE SITE JOHN
I think I will stick with the gentler approach though. A clean pup, a seat cover, and plenty of happy car rides sounds like a better plan. Thanks for the laugh and for sharing your story!
Get a junker car to take the dog out…
Now there’s some creative problem solving! Whatever gets our dogs out for fresh air and a little adventure is worth considering.
You know they have those Coverletts now for the seats in the car, they even make them so that they cover a whole back seat section, it’s made to attract the dog hair to keep it from flying all over the car and is easily removable and can be washed… this should solve the dog issue. this way the dog doesn’t lay 1 paw onto the new surface of the vehicle. 🙂
Those seat covers can be a lifesaver for keeping the fur, dirt, and muddy paw prints contained. A little prevention goes a long way, especially when you want to keep your car looking nice while still letting your dog enjoy the ride. Happy travels with your furry co pilot!
Years ago my then husband bought me a car for my birthday. He said the same thing- no dogs in the car, ever. Well, he gave the car to me, so that rule lasted exactly until the next time Opus and/or Wouffie was going with me – maybe a couple of days. The thing is, are we living with our pets or are they an accessory we use when it is convenient? They have feelings and wants, too, and in my house all members of the household have a right to an opinion and having it considered. And I have a vaccuum cleaner that does an adequate job of cleaning up dog hair in the car and elsewhere in my world. Generally my dogs ride in the back seat and we ride in the front, so there is a sheet (color co-ordinated with the car) on the back seat which can be shaken out and washed as often as needed. Come on, lady – get outside yourself for a minute and see how much dogs contribute to your life and health every minute, then give something back!
Dogs have a wonderful way of becoming true members of the family, don’t they? A little dog hair here and there is a pretty small price to pay for all the joy, companionship, and love they bring into our lives. Sounds like Opus and Wouffie had a pretty great setup!
How about doggie boots so Mackie cannot scratch anything and as a double precaution, a seat cover/throw.
How will they get the dog to the vet if you are not around and there is an emergency?
Good luck.
Thanks for the great suggestions! Dog boots can definitely help protect surfaces, and a good seat cover is always handy for those messy moments.
For emergencies, having a backup plan is a smart move. A trusted friend, family member, neighbor, or even a local pet taxi service can be a lifesaver when you can’t be there. A little preparation goes a long way!
My husband felt the same way but even worse. He didn’t want a dog in the house, let alone the car. After years of arguing I finally just came home with a puppy one day. Now she’s part of the family, travels in the car and he loves her too. He just washes his hands every time he touches her.
Sometimes you just have to do the right thing and in a marriage, compromises need to be made. For one person to suddenly change “the rules” is not right. Cars are just a necessary piece of metal, cloth and plastic to get us from point A to point B. A dog on the other hand has feelings (and the husband too) and is vastly more important.
Another point though that no one brought up: I would not want to take a dog into a new car since they are full of toxic fumes. Did you know you’re supposed to drive with the windows open for 6 months to not inhale all the toxins that are off-gassing? I’d definitely be using a blanket to avoid the new car toxins from being absorbed through the paws and inhaled through the lungs.
One more thing to hasten the process is to use Air Sponge in the car (put it in your new house too!). It will absorb the toxic gases and get rid of that obnoxious new car smell and beyond that it will also absorb any dog odors. Great for painting and smelly food and stuff like that too. You can get it in most hardware stores or in Walmart (in the air freshener toxic aisle–hold your breath if you venture there!).
You said the inlaws are great people normally so I’m assuming this isn’t related to some kind of power struggle between them, and really is an issue about the clean car. Sometimes people use silly things to create big arguments and it’s not even the real issue. My husband has real issues with cleanliness and is rather OCD thanks to his upbringing but it doesn’t sound like this is the case here. Hope they work it out!
Love this story. It’s funny how many “I don’t want a dog” people end up becoming the biggest dog lovers in the house.
You’re right that relationships are about compromise, and everyone’s feelings matter, including the humans and the furry family members. A little patience, communication, and maybe a good seat cover can solve a lot of these battles.
And yes, reducing exposure to strong chemical smells and improving air quality is always a good idea. Fresh air is your friend!
As a four-legged canine myself, I fully realize the huge problem shedding represents. I HATE shedding myself and finding my hair all over the place.
Having said that, I think your mother-in-law is not thinking this through very clearly.
You see, Mackie is not the only one who sheds: so do your father- and mother-in-law, their children, grandchildren, etc.
So in order to keep this new car in pristine condition, which seems to be the point of the exercise, NO ONE should be allowed in the car.
Furthermore, I recommend keeping the new car in the garage which should also be sealed to prevent access to dust, mites, etc.
Only then will she have the problem licked!
Dogs shedding is definitely part of the deal when you share life with a furry friend. A little hair is a small price to pay for all the love, laughs, and companionship they bring. Mackie gets a free pass in my book!
I would just get one of those plastic couch covers & put it on the back set for the dog to sit on. Also, they make dog seat belts for car rides now. He’d have to stay in one place because of being belted in, but its safer, & he can’t go all over the car. Alot of pet stores sell them, its a good investment if he wants to take his dog for rides. also, he can put a special blankent or something under him where he is seat belted in. Maybe this will work for them.
Keeping our dogs safe and comfortable in the car is always a win. A seat belt harness and a cozy blanket can make rides much safer, and the couch cover idea is a clever way to protect the seats too. Happy travels with your furry co pilot!
Why not purchase an inexpensive vehicle just for Mackie? When we purchased our new vehicles, we kept an older minivan just for our four Great Pyrenees. It was paid for and the insurance only costs $300 a year. OR, put blankets in the car and wash them after taking Mackie for an outing.
Blankets and washable covers are also a simple trick many pet parents use. At the end of the day, the most important thing is that Mackie gets those adventures and quality time with you. A happy dog is a lucky dog!
I certainly got a chuckle reading all of these. It makes me feel good to know I am not the only one who puts my dogs first. The new-car will wear off eventually, I suspect they have a second auto. If not, a used car would be the thing and then just use it to go anywhere with Mackie. I especially liked the one comment about leaving the Mrs at home and not allowing her in the new car either…..her perfume might stink it up..lol. I can’t imagine being that stuck on a vehicle that my pups couldn’t go with me. By the way I have 4 rescue pups…2 Goldens and 2 Pomeranians….I also have white furniture….Dog hair is a part of life. I recently lost a Golden to a heart tumor….I would give anything to be picking up his dog hair again….Bless you. I enjoy your daily newsletters.
Four rescue pups and white furniture? That’s dedication! The dog hair is just a little reminder of all the love filling your home. And I’m so sorry about your Golden, losing them leaves such a huge paw shaped hole in our hearts. I think many of us would happily trade a spotless house for one more day of those little reminders. Give your pups an extra scratch from me!
Hey Mackie,
Go roll in the mud, get yourself all dirty, then jump right into the car. That way, the car is no longer clean and there’s no reason to keep you out!
Good luck!
A little mud therapy might work on the car rules, but I think the humans may have a few things to say about that one.
how does your mother outlaw feel about transporting mackie to the vet,when necessary? is the sick dog supposed to walk to the dr.?we are a 2 car family,one is newish,good on gas and the boyz(our 3 dogs)don’t ride in it much,we don’t have a “rule” about it,it’s just easier to take them in their own vehicle.not kidding,they have their own truck.it’s an old beater,with a canopy on the back,cheap to run and insure and the boyz are very comfortable on their outings.i think that if you are going to have a dog,you have a responsibility to give them the best life you possibly can.this does not include condemming them to sped their entire lifespan at home…needless to say,her rule peeves me off royally.
i have been reading your newsletter for quite a while now and find it to be informative and sometimes very moving…this is the first time,however that i have been moved to comment.my heart goes out to mackie who,if this woman has her way,will never get to carsurf again.
I agree that getting our dogs where they need to go, whether it is the vet or out for a fun adventure, is part of caring for them. Every family has their own way of doing things, but I sure hope Mackie gets to enjoy plenty more rides with the wind in his face.
They could examine the psychology of the marriage, and/or get a 2nd junker car. I got my car for $100 and it ran for a year without issue before I had to do any maintenance or repair work on it. A junker car may be cheaper than a marriage counselor or a shrink.
But when it comes to relationships, a little communication and understanding can go a long way too. Maybe the car just needs a tune up, and sometimes people do too.
Dear Dr Andrew,
How sad, I really HATE seeing pets come up as second-best in their own household. It’s obvious your MIL is a shallow person who cares more for THINGS than she does her own poor dog which is supposed to be a loved family member! There’s absolutely NO reason at all that a washable throw or comforter cannot be placed over her car’s interior so that no doggie parts ‘contaminate or soil’ her precious upholstery!
Grrrrrr….people like that don’t deserve to even have a pet IMHO! Let her try getting unconditional love from her car!!!
I think most of us who love animals would agree that pets deserve to feel like part of the family. Sometimes people just have different boundaries around their homes and belongings, but there are always simple solutions that let us protect both the furniture and the bond we have with our pets. A little blanket or car cover can go a long way.
At the end of the day, a dog’s biggest need is feeling loved, safe, and included. That’s the real luxury they care about most.
While I can understand your mother-in-law’s point of view (it sucks to get in the car win good clothes and get dog hair all over them when going out someplace really nice), I think she’s going too far. There are things that can be done so that everyone, including the dog can enjoy the car. (1) The dog could be crated in the car. This would not only keep dog hair off the seats, it would be safest for the dog. (2) They could buy some type seat protector or throw (LL Bean, PetEdge, etc. sell several different ones. (3) and if the dog isn’t crated she should be wearing a harness that attaches to the seatbelt (or be strapped in a doggy carseat) for his/her safety anyway. So there’s yet another way to keep dog hair off the seats. And, finally, (4). your father-in-law could agree to vacuum out the car after each outting.
There are definitely lots of ways to make car rides work for everyone, including our furry passengers. A good crate, harness, or seat cover can make a big difference. And yes, keeping pets safely secured in the car is always a smart move. A little planning goes a long way, and maybe a good vacuum too!
That new car smell is not good for the dog or for you
so once the novelty has worn off & the smell… the first ding etc the dog will be allowed … perhaps use his kennel or cover the seat with plastic etc… maybe a blessing in disguise since the off gasing is toxic.
That new car smell is actually from chemicals off gassing from materials inside the vehicle, so letting the car air out and keeping good ventilation is a smart move for both people and pets. A little protection for the seats is never a bad idea either, especially with our furry passengers who love to make themselves at home.
Hmmmm…few comments..
1) To all those macho types…well, when people are married (unless there is an agreement otherwise) his money IS THEIR money just as her money is THEIR money…it doesn’t matter who paid for the car. The idea is for ALL of God’s creatures to live together in harmony, that includes humans and animals….
2) Nice to see another “Annette” on the forum.
Also cute name for her dog, Simba. I had a cat named Kimba years and years ago. Felt as she does…life always is the most important choice..esp. when we are talking about the life of one of our dearest friends. Interesting similarities in our attitudes and pets names.
3) The NEWNESS will wear off. People OFTEN say when they get a new car…NO ONE will EVER eat/drink/wear muddy shoes/wet bathing suit,etc
in THIS car….1 ding in the shopping center and
all bets are off. That doesn’t mean they don’t love their children or other family members…it
just means they are being temporarily nearsighted.
4) Dr.Andy….this sounds like a perfect opportunity for you to have some long discussions
with this woman’s daughter (your wife). It’s a way to discuss and air differences without it being quite so personal as it is when discussing your OWN home/property. You’ll hear each other better.
5) I would not let your MIL care for that animal’s walks and welfare…now that would be JAILtime for the poor pup. But it would not hurt
to have her husband ask her what she is willing to give UP so they can buy a cargo tow or whatever they are called…or a very good cage-which is safer for the animal anyway. Let her take
responsiblity for compromising to get her way and she will be happier with the solution. When she thinks she can have her way without consequences… well, you end up with a tyrant.
They make grates that keep the animals in the back
of the car, as well as great cages,etc which are
quite safe.
Again, Dr. Andy, you need to recognize your wife was raised with these values and they have had an impact on her. NOW is the time to explore them and come to an understanding. If she always sees her mom setting rules exclusively without considering ALL family members, she will think this is what should be. Trust me, for HER to come up with a solution will be best for all…
ultimately YOU (and Lewis and the kids) will benefit…she’s in a perfect postion for mediation as she understands both sides.
IF it were me, I’d just buy them the cage or whatever works best as a gift and then train the dog to become comfortable with it….will make for an easier transition.
Of course, I might end up using that very same cage I bought THEM to transport that dog HOME —-to MY OWN home that is.
At the end of the day, keeping our pets safe and happy is what matters most. A proper crate, harness, or secure setup can make a big difference.
And I love the Simba and Kimba connection. Our pets really do leave a lasting paw print on our hearts.
Oh for god sake get a blanket and when the dog leaves the car spray air freshener if there’s a strong dog odor. There’s an item I believe it called a doggie hammock. You strap one end of it around the front head rest and the other around the back head rest, the dog’s body doesn’t even touch the car seat.
All I have to do is pick up my keys and my dog thnks she’s going in the car. I can’t imagine her never being allowed to go in the car because it’s new. Dogs are members of our families, all family members should be allowed in the family car.
Your father in law can vacuum the car out every time he brings Mackie back from a drive that might make his wife a little happy.
A good seat cover, blanket, or dog hammock can definitely make car rides easier while keeping things cleaner. At the end of the day, those adventures and memories with our dogs are pretty special. A little fur is often just part of the deal!
Now I can see where your wife gets her values. Issues concerning the non human member of the family should be discussed before the marriage.Tt sounds as if there is a problem going on in the marriage and she is using the dog to hurt her husband. Personally, this and probably the way she treats Mackie if she does not love him, would be grounds for divorce.
I hope your father-in-law stands up for his canine friend. I suggest your father-in-law get his own car.
Our dogs bring out a lot of emotion in us because we care so deeply about them. The best path is always compassion, good communication, and making sure the pet’s needs come first. Mackie is lucky to have people who care about him.
AH! DER!!! no brainer, if mackie is small, put a blanket on the seat or floor board and put him in a kennel on said blanket. volia, no hair. and good ole dad inlaw can run the car through a car wash and get the inside cleaned for that fresh smell again if mum is so anel.
A blanket or washable cover can definitely help keep the fur under control. That said, a little dog hair is often just part of the deal when you share life with a furry family member.
They make car covers for this very issue. I’m finding it hard to understand why this option hasn’t been reviewed with her. I understand the hair and mud issues but these prevent or at least keep the amt down (when used properly) significantly. I have car seat covers on the front seats and a hammock type cover on the back seat where Winston is. Makes it easy to take out when he’s not w/ me and the seats are clean for human use. It’s also very easy to clean. As for drool on the window it takes 2 seconds w/ Windex and a paper towel to fix that! If this doesn’t get her to change her tune – well your FIL should tell fine but given your new rule we’ve just become a 2 car family again. That ought to make her stop and think.
Car covers and hammocks can definitely make life a lot easier for dog owners. Sometimes it’s less about the mess and more about finding a routine that works for everyone. A little planning goes a long way, and our dogs are worth the extra towel or two!
Have a friend like this and it drives me crazy.
Have Father-In-Law either keep their old car or by a little used car for he and Mackie. If that upsets wife that is to bad, her thinking is way out of line. Now the whole picture comes out, why you have been told no animals in new house, like Mother like Daughter.
Feel sorry for you when you can see the future that is coming your way.
Our animals are the same as our children, when we have them we take on the responsibility of caring for them through their full life.
I hear you, our pets really do become part of the family and that bond runs deep. It’s always best when everyone involved can come together with kindness and a plan that keeps the animal’s wellbeing at the center. Our furry friends rely on us, and that responsibility is a big part of the joy of sharing our lives with them.
I keep a sheet in the trunk for when Luka, my GSD, rides in the brand new Honda. She even had folliculitis (lost lots of hair) and I was still able to let her ride in the back.
Folliculitis can definitely be frustrating, especially with that hair loss, but keeping her comfortable and still including her in the fun is a big win. That trunk sheet is a simple but clever trick. More adventures with less mess, I like it!
I WILL BUY MY OWN CAR, BECAUSE ME AND MACKIE NEED OUR EXCERCIZE! That’s what your father in law should do! NO BUT’S OR IF’S and he can ask her what a car is for? to show off or a convenient transportation for the “whole” family?
Exercise is one of the best gifts we can give our dogs, and honestly, they’re pretty good at reminding us when it’s time to get moving. Wishing you and Mackie many happy adventures together!
Sounds like she would like to punish her husband as well as the dog! How selfish can on be?! She is depriving both the dog and her husband the companionship they have grown to love. Get the seat covered and let the poor dog live his life as he is accustomed. The car will NOT stay new forever. One minor scratch and it’s not new any more. Why deprive the poor dog and the POORER husband of the relationship they have developed and love? SELFISH WOMAN! People and animals are much more important than things! She should get over herself!!
Sometimes it just comes down to finding a happy middle ground. A good seat cover, a little training, and a bit of compromise can go a long way. After all, the memories we make with our dogs usually matter a whole lot more than keeping the car showroom perfect!
Buy another car and designate it as the “dog car” or “ENTIRE family car.” People need to relax and not get so uptight. Life’s way too short……
Life with pets is meant to be enjoyed. A little dog hair, muddy paws, and slobbery kisses are pretty small prices to pay for all the love they give us. Sometimes we just need to relax and remember who’s really in charge of the house anyway
I just bought a new car, leather interior, all the bells and whistles. NO WAY I’m leaving my dog Chloe behind, she goes were I go and beign a Spanish Water Dog she needs her swimming, how else is she going to get there. I throw a blanket in the back and off we go. She loves to travel.
Dogs are more important than cars, they are family.
A new car is nice, but those adventures with our dogs are the memories that really matter. Just keep that blanket handy and maybe a towel or two for those post swimming adventures. Happy travels to you and Chloe!
Mackie will need to go to the vet some time … perhaps once the new car has been ‘baptized’, its ‘specialness’ will wear off.
When it is time for the vet visit, a little preparation and a calm approach can make the trip much easier for everyone.
Many of the above reasonable ideas are good ones. I have 6 dogs. All small, medium and large of them (short to long hair). Four shed very little and the other 2 shed profusely. I use 2 large beach towels for the back seat and a nice double sided 100% cotton bath mat for the front. Some of the my dogs will just sit and lie on the seat, where 2 would rather look out the window. I have a box in the trunk that I keep a bottle of windex, paper towels(or large old rag, formerly an old towel cut in half). Fortunately, none of my dogs get motion sickness. I don’t use the roller lint thing because I comb and brush my dogs every night (our bonding time) and that usually takes care of most of the hair. However, some hair do show up on the beach towels and it is easier to take the towels out to wash them. The 2 dogs “who” like the door side windows, I use the windex and towels to wipe up residue from wet noses and spittle. We all drive/ride in a 1996 vehicle so the new car spell is long gone. If Mother-in-law is adamant about the new car smell, then Wal-Mart, Auto-Zone, other car stores and car wash places have spray mist bottles of car air fresher. Guess what? the “New Car” freshner is one of them! I have an acute sense of smell, so I bathe my dogs probably more freguently than most people. When they ride with me there is some odor from their panting, but it does not linger in the car after they get out.
Hope this helps.
from Texas
Sounds like you’ve got the dog car setup down to a science. The beach towels and regular brushing are such simple tricks that make a huge difference, and that nightly brushing time is a great way to keep the coat under control while getting some quality bonding in.
Six dogs and a 1996 vehicle still going strong, I’d say you’ve found the perfect balance between happy dogs and a practical ride. Thanks for the tips from Texas!
First – your Father-in-law – and you, your wife and whoever else is around – needs to play the “health” card. Walking is proven to be some of the best exercise, and walking a dog is a proven stress reliever. Your FIL gets valuable health benefits from the regular trips to the park. Blood-pressure, weight, circulation, cholesterol – the list of things favorably improved by regular trips goes on.
Next –
The dog is safest riding either in a crate or seat-belted in (there are harnesses are specially made for this). Limiting where the dog can go in the vehicle will make it easy to protect that area – put a blanket under the crate or a cover on the seat. There are also sling type blankets specially made to hook over the back of the front seat and the headrest of the back seats, protecting the floor and the back of the front seats. The items made specially for travel with a dog in the car are nearly endless – so figuring out the perfect solution shouldn’t be difficult. Personally, I like old movers blankets as they are heavy and machine washable – and if you are trying to protect the car with out spending much you can certainly make something. Just look around at what is out there for ideas.
Finally – the dog, with a little planning, is far, far less likely to stain or mess the car than say – human grandchildren….
A daily walk is a win win, good for the dog and good for us humans too.
And yes, a little planning makes car trips with dogs so much easier. A secure harness, crate, or a good washable cover can save a lot of cleanup later. Our dogs are family, so finding a way to include them safely is always worth it.
Also, I had to laugh at the grandchild comparison… sometimes our furry passengers are actually the cleaner ones!
Hmmm – this reminds me of another story recedntly out about a vet who bought a new house?? Okay, questions – if it’s a two car family, no bigfgie, transport Mackie in the other car. If it’s a one car family, then yeah, a compromise will have to be reached. I agree with all the others that suggest blankets, car seats etc.
Good luck!
Every pet and family situation is a little different, and finding a solution that keeps everyone safe and comfortable is the goal. Sometimes it takes a bit of creativity, a few blankets, a good seat cover, and maybe a little patience from both ends.
How does she expect the dog to get to the vet,walk?It’s a car,a thing,it’s going to get dinged etc.Put a blanket down and lighten up for God’s sake!
A blanket in the car is a great idea and helps keep things clean. Every pet owner has their own way of doing things, and the most important thing is that our dogs are safe, comfortable, and getting the care they need.
What about Mackie’s quality of life!
Purchase a couple of cheap blankets that are easy to throw in the wash and have Mackie sit on the blankets. Give Mackie a bath every 4-6 weeks (not any oftener though or his skin will become too dry) and groom/brush him frequently. And, if Mackie is given a good diet (real food, not the crap the pet food industry tries to shove down their throats and our pocket books) along with good oils, he won’t shed much at all. Flaxseed oil is the best. My dogs are bathed about every six weeks and they do not smell bad and they do not shed.
A good diet, regular grooming, and making their environment easier to manage can definitely help. Just remember every dog is different, and some shedding and skin issues can also come from allergies, hormones, or other health concerns. Flaxseed oil can be a helpful source of omega 3s, but some dogs benefit more from other omega 3 sources too.
The goal is simple: a happy, comfortable Mackie who gets lots of love.
Andrew
Here in New Zealand some of our working farm dogs travel either in a specially built dog trailer if there are a few, or one only with a kennel type cage bolted to a tow bar,but that no doubt is a lot of fuss ,so if they have a hatch back wagon then maybe cage the back section off (from the mother inlaw ) ,and if they have a boot (trunk) maybe stuff the mother inlaw in it and give the dog the front seat.
Q. You know what they say the difference between the inlaws and the outlaws are —-A.outlaws are wanted.
Sounds like those farm dogs in New Zealand have some pretty fancy travel setups though. Safety first, whether they’re riding in a trailer, crate, or a secured area of the vehicle.
And yes, dogs definitely deserve the VIP seat sometimes. Just maybe keep the inlaws out of the trunk!
Oh hell no! How far would some people go to put their toys over their family?!?
We have three dogs and one cat. Besides the occasional trip to the vet and more often doggy daycare, our Jetta (leather seats and all) IS a dog-mobile. So what if they shed or muddy up the seats? Kids do that all the time but would the parent forbid the kids from entering the vehicle (“EVER”) because of that?
Oh yeah, our youngest, Levi, used to have a bad motion sickness and would throw up repeatedly for the duration of the trip (he no longer has this problem). This is also common in kids and even some adults yet we don’t punish them by leaving them behind at home now, do we?
There are protective blankies, vacuums, deodorizers and a whole battery of gadgets to keep things clean. C’mon now, that “new car smell” is nothing but the stink of chemicals in plastics, carpets and such. Besides, “you can’t take it with you”, if you know what I mean, but you sure can leave a great memory of yourself as a tolerant and loving person!
Well, doctor Jones, I don’t know your dad or your “mother superior” to comment on how they should interract but, if that rediculous behavior happened in my family, the mother in law would be the one left out of the car.
Peace.
j
I think our pets are part of the family, muddy paws, fur, and all. A little extra cleaning is a small price to pay for the memories and adventures we share with them. Thanks for sharing your perspective, and give those pups and your cat a pat from me!
Your mother-in-law needs to be made to understand that she is putting an inanimate piece of metal and fabric ahead of a warm, loving member of the family. How will she feel when the car is old and the dog has passed away? The car won’t stay new forever, nor will the dog live forever. She mustn’t be that old yet (I will be 70 next month) or she would have a better sense of values. Tell her she will live to regret it. A clean car isn’t worth it.
I think our pets have a pretty amazing way of reminding us what really matters. Cars can be cleaned, fixed, and replaced, but those little furry family members give us something you just can’t buy. A bit of mud and a few paw prints are often signs of a life well lived.
If a dog is a part of a family, how can anyone expect to keep him away from the things that family members do? Who decided this, Mom, or Dad or both? Would they keep their kids out of a new car?
I’m sorry, these are like so many people who treat their companion animals as if they are possessions and without feelings.
I could NEVER imagine even thinking about DISALLOWING my fur child from riding in the car or
anywhere else, for that matter.
So, get some nice sheets or throws, cover the seats and go to the car wash on a weekly basis! 🙂
Our pets are absolutely part of the family, and sharing life with them is one of the joys of having dogs. The goal is really about finding a balance between keeping them included and keeping them safe. A few simple things like a seat cover, regular cleaning, and making sure they’re properly secured in the car can go a long way. Happy adventures with your furry family members!
Hi
I love my dog too.. My dog is more impt than my car.. Knowing its new I wld use seat cover on the one side that I know he will be sitting at and get a dog car harness so he/she doesnt move around the car and only that seat. To me that wld suffice and the rest of the car will remain clean.
Our dogs are family, so keeping them safe and comfortable while traveling is what matters most. A good harness and a little protection for the seats can go a long way. Plus, a happy dog passenger makes every trip better!
sound like your wife was def. cut from the same cloth cause now new house no dog in it either, so i say get rid of your wife then the inlaws will be gone too……….well sorry but you asked.
Dogs have a pretty special way of filling a home with love and a bit of chaos too. As for the rest, I’ll let the family negotiations stay between us humans. I’m just happy to keep helping pets and their people wherever I can!
Poor dog, but then some people feel this way because they don’t want anything to ruin their perfect little world. I am a 24-hour pet sitting service in my home and have many dogs in my home, yard, vehicle, even on my bed. I am also a particular Virgo, but I love dogs and I feel as you do that we have domesticated them, which is wonderful, but we are also forbidding them to enjoy some of their life the way it was meant to be. Most of my clients don’t care if their dog children get dirty, play in the water, or have a human snack or not, they just want them to be happy. Others are still under the mindset that most of the dry dog food on the market is just fine and don’t want their little darlings to get the slightest bit dirty. I have watched dogs play over and over and enjoy each others company tremendously. They give so much love to us, its time we give it back to them by letting them ride in the car and participate in family activities, take them to dog parks, stay in open environment pet sitters homes instead of metal cages in a kennel when we have to go away and start feeding them some real food.
Dogs do not need a perfect life. They need a happy one. A little dirt, play, fresh air, and being part of the family goes a long way. Add some real food to the bowl and you have one pretty happy pup. Thanks for giving so many dogs a home away from home.
He should go out and buy a super ugly but dependable truck for him and the dog. When she wants to go somewhere he should follow her in the “pretty car” with the “ugly truck”. My guess is that she will be quite embarassed and mad for a while but her ego should eventually cause her to give in and allow the dog back in the car.
Poor pup.
I think the better solution is a good seat cover and a dog harness. Much easier than buying a whole second truck, and everyone gets to ride together.
Why doesn’t she wrap the car in gift wrap and never moves it? What will she do, if she gets some dirt from the outside on the car?
Maybe it is just me, but for me a car is a tool to get from A to B and not a ‘clean room’.
Sorry that I do not have a proper advise. I think the question is not “how do I get the dog back into the car?”, the question is “how do I get my mother in law to change her mind and accept that a dog is a living being, a part of the family?”. How about her children, are they allowed in the car?
Dagmar
Dogs bring a little dirt, a lot of love, and plenty of memories. Cars can be cleaned. A happy dog is a lot harder to replace.
If Mackie is used to being able to go in the car and all of a sudden he can’t he will think he is being punished for something he had nothing to do with. Tell her to put down a blanket, get some cleaner for the seats Put on her big girl pants and get over it. Would she say she wouldn’t want her grandchildren to ride in the car in case they would get it dirty? I think not!!! Let Mackie Ride
A blanket and a seat cover can save the upholstery. For most dogs, car rides are a highlight of the day, so if we can keep them safe and comfortable, everyone wins.
Get a “dog rug” or seat cover (or even an old, comfortable blanket) to cover the car so Mackie can ride in the car. OR insist that they get another car that Mackie CAN ride in – it is completely UNFAIR to deprive Mackie of his usual way of life just because of a new car. When family owns a dog, they are responsible to keep the dog in the lifestyle to which it is accustomed (just like husbands and wives). A car is just a car, but a dog is a family member!!
I like the dog rug idea. A comfy seat cover and a proper safety harness can go a long way. The goal is keeping Mackie safe, happy, and still enjoying those car rides. After all, adventures are better with your best buddy along.
Trade in you mother-in-law for the old car. Let her ride alone in the new car and your father-in-law can drive in his old comfortable doggy smelling car along with his best friend Mackie. Mackie does not deserve to be put through this punishment. With car seat blankets, cages and all other equipment being sold let me tell you that she is just being hard headed. She’s mean. I don’t blame her for wanting to keep the car clean but this is going overboard.
A good seat cover and a quick cleanup usually keep everyone happy, humans and dogs included. There is almost always a solution that does not involve leaving our best furry friends behind.
Boy! People are getting really ridiculous about their “new” stuff! I don’t get it. I enjoy getting something new, just as much as anyone else, but, for crying out loud, it’s just an inanimate object! In a couple of years, that car will be a worthless piece of junk. But the dogs will still be priceless! What good is getting something new, if you cannot enjoy it? I have walked into people’s houses who actually have all their furniture covered in that obnoxious plastic. What the heck are these people thinking??? Get real! Life is short! Enjoy the comfort of your furniture right now, with the dog and the cat right up there on the couch, too!! Cruise down the road, with the radio blasting some music that you really like and your dog riding co-pilot with his head out the window, feeling the wind in his ears and a huge grin on his face! Get over it!!!
Well said! A little dog hair can be cleaned up. The time we get with our pets is something we can never replace.
I agree that mom-in-law is wrong to think she can change the rules just because they changed cars. If she wants to preserve the car’s newness, the impetus is on her to suggest solutions that are fair and equitable. (Crate, blanket, whatever.)
I also think that if dad-in-law doesn’t have the cojones to stick up for his own dog, then the impetus is on *him* to get another car that can be used to provide the dog with freedom of movement and adventure beyond the borders of the immediate neighborhood.
And it seems your whole in-law family, wife included, needs a little lesson on the fact that animals have just as much right to happiness as we do–and as pet owners, we are obligated to make sure that right is upheld (rather than being the ones who are curtailing it)!
The dog should not be the one paying the price. A simple blanket or seat cover solves a lot, and everyone wins. At the end of the day, our pets rely on us to give them a happy, full life, not just a comfy spot at home.
Actually, I had another idea, combining some of the things people have suggested…what if a section of the car was hermetically sealed off from the rest, and the mother-in-law could ride only in that part? You could pipe air into her section that was specially scented with that new car smell. That would probably be her best way to make sure she never gives up that pristine wonderfulness. And everyone else, including Mackie, could enjoy the other 3/4 of the car as usual.
I think Mackie would definitely vote for that seating arrangement. As long as everyone gets fresh air and a comfortable ride, especially our furry copilot, it sounds like a win all around.
I agree 100% with Cathy Shores comment! You have certainly married into one doozy of a family, and thats the truth! Tell your father in law to grow some balls, and tell the witch he married to get back into her box. The car will depreciate in value, and Mackie will APPRECIATE in value, why can’t this silly woman realise that? ITS ONLY A CAR for goodness sake, a means of getting from A to B and back again. By the way, that “new car smell” is not great for everyone, or every creature. I can travel 10 minutes max with that smell before throwing up, and one of my dogs is the same. Makes you wonder what toxic chemicals are still floating around the inside of a new car doesn’t it? Give me good old fashioned “doggy smell” any day, and I bet it is healthier!
Cars come and go, but our pets give us something money cannot buy. And yes, that new car smell is actually made up of chemicals released from the interior materials, so some people and pets can be sensitive to it. I will take a happy dog in the car any day.
I think that your father in law should go out and buy a beater car that is to be used just for doggy joy rides to the park. That should keep everyone happy! 🙂
That might actually be the perfect compromise. A dedicated dog mobile for park trips sounds like a win for everyone, especially the lucky pup.
I think that it is their car and they should make the decisions for it and you should respect it and as for your father in law it is his fight not yours so give up I love dogs too but I do respect others who dont want my dogs in their car.
You are right that it is their car and they get to make that choice. At the same time, we all want what is safest for our dogs. If someone says no, I respect it and find another way to get them where they need to go. No hard feelings. The goal is keeping everyone, two legs and four, happy.
I agree totally. If Mackie is used to getting to go in the car she (mother-in-law) should purchase a cover for the car seat and let Mackie ride in the car to the parks that he loves to take his walks in. How would she like it if she were homebound? I am a nurse and believe me I see a lot of people that are home bound (home health nurse) and it is very frustrating for them the have there freedom and independence taken away from them. Have a heart let him enjoy life while he is still able. Just my opinion.
If Mackie is comfortable with car rides and still enjoys getting out, a simple trip to the park can make a big difference to his quality of life. A good seat cover and a safe harness are small investments for a lot of happy tail wags. Every dog deserves to enjoy the things they love for as long as they can.
I wish I could remember the website but don’t. There are these canvas type, waterproof covers, sling type that go over the seat, goes from the back of the seat, can’t get to the floor or the back of the front seat. If not, dad in law should get a car for him and the dog.
Those hammock style seat covers are actually a great idea. They help keep dogs safer and stop them from ending up on the floor. Hopefully someone remembers the website.
I agree with you Dr Andrew, and a new car is just a thing, something to get one from A to B. I guess when the car is old she will allow the dog in the car.
People do a lot to keep the peace at times, but I think in this case your father-in-law should go ahead and keep doing what he was doing before the new car. It’s something he likes doing with Mackie
If the dog was a child, it would be allowed in the car. I have always thought there was something wrong with anyone who did not love animals.
As you have said, and I have the same opinion, our pets are a significant part of the family.
As I have noted above, there are car seat covers for animals or he can buy a cheap old car.
You make some great points. At the end of the day, it’s really about making memories with Mackie, not keeping a car spotless forever. A good seat cover can save the upholstery, and everyone wins.
Rooted in years of Abolitionist Animal Rights research and my transition to a Vegan lifestyle, I have learned much of gross animal cruelty and of it’s causes and effects. I, like thousands of others, have signed many petitions over the years protesting all manner of horrific injustice to animals that continuously fall on deaf ears. As a result, regarding companion animals, I have come to hold these firm beliefs that some day, hopefully:
1) all breeding should be banned,
2) spay/neutering should be mandatory,
3) the “property” status of (all) animals should be eliminated,
and (for your Mother-in-Law),
4) Guardians of existing companion animals should be made to pass a standardized means test that reflects the lifetime OPTIMUM care requirements of the animal with regular mandatory Government funded follow up investigations after adoption… so that this kind of cruel behaviour just would not happen.
You make some thoughtful points, and I think we can all agree that preventing suffering should be the goal. For me, the biggest wins are helping more pets get spayed and neutered, encouraging responsible guardianship, and making good veterinary care easier to access.
Old sheets can protect the seats and be easily washed. A little vinilla can freshen the interior. Or air spray if your so inclined. Your Father law needs to remind her that it is his car too. Take his dog buddy out and have a good time.
Betsy
Old sheets are a great low cost way to keep fur and dirt off the seats. One small note though, I would skip the vanilla. Many vanilla products contain ingredients that are not ideal for pets, especially in a confined space. A good wash and fresh air usually do the trick. And yes, Buddy definitely deserves a fun outing too.
P.S. Your mother in law should consider the good exercise her husband is getting by taking the dog out to the parks even if she isn’t thinking of the little dog. Walking is great for them both.
Absolutely. It is good for both of them. Fresh air, a daily walk, and a happy little dog are a pretty great prescription.
Dear Dr. AJ
I feel sad that both your wife and her mother are so anti-dog for the sake of what they percieve as a clean house or car.
Who is going to judge what type of person they are by the cleanliness of their abode or transport, who do they want to impress?
It could also go against them for having pets that are restricted to special spots where they can actually act like animals.
Why would you want a pet if they were not considered part of the family, I think that neither your wife or her mother are pet people.
It’s a shame your father-in-law and his dog have had to live with the same issues that you are experiencing now.
Being an animal person, we have had all sorts of animals from domestic cats and dogs, to red/grey/flying squirrels,brought up baby great horned owls on the shower rod in the bathroom while they were still in down feathers, a French Alpine goat who started in my dad’s lap in the house like a puppy until she was too big to stay in the house all the time (she was still OK visiting). She walked everyday with my dad and dogs to the beach. My dad took the seat out of the VW bug he had at the time so that she could go to NH to ski and hike the Appalchian trail with him
It definitely sounds like you’ve shared your home with quite the crew over the years.
Every family has their own comfort level, and sometimes we just have to find a balance that keeps both the people and the pets happy. Your dad and that Alpine goat sound like they had some amazing adventures together. Thanks for sharing such a fun story.
Dear Dr. AJ
!/2 my email disappeared before my hints were typed on it-who knows where ity is now.
I feel sad that both your wife and her mother are so anti-dog for the sake of what they percieve as a clean house or car.
Who is going to judge what type of person they are by the cleanliness of their abode or transport, who do they want to impress?
It could also go against them for having pets that are restricted to special spots where they can only act like animals. If I was visiting I wouldn’t feel comfortable seeing the dogs restricted to a boot room.
My dogs usually sleep on the couch while I lie on the floor with my bad back while we all watch TV together with the cats lying on top of and draped across the dogs.
Why would you want a pet if they were not considered part of the family?
I think that neither your wife or her mother are pet people.
It’s a shame your father-in-law and his dog have had to live with the same issues that you are experiencing now.
Being an animal person, we have had all sorts of animals from domestic cats and dogs; to red/grey/flying squirrels who used to hide their nuts in the springs of the couch or the potted plants; a baby racoon whgo shared the litter box with the cats and would race up the hallway in rapid pursuit; we brought up baby great horned owls on the shower rod in the bathroom while they were still in down feathers in the dead chill of January; a French Alpine goat who started in my dad’s lap in the house like a puppy until she was too big to stay in the house all the time (she was still OK visiting). She walked everyday with my dad and dogs to the beach. My dad took the seat out of the VW bug he had at the time so that she could go to NH to ski, snowshoe and hike the Appalchian trail with him and we could go on and on.
The last 2 examples show the other side of the coin where humans are willing to accomodate their pets so that the pets could also enjoy whatever their humans were doing.
At this point in time I have 2 dogs who go everywhere with me, they expect to go and always have.
I can’t guarantee an odorless car if the dogs are in it and wet, because wet dog smell does seep into the blankets or what you let the dogs sit on (however those can be washed).
What I do first is think of the dogs’ comfort and in the back of my estate (station wagon) car, I have a dog guard plus 4 couch cushions so that their elbows and hips don’t get banged on bumpy roads.
I am not car-proud, but in case I want to sell it in 10 years time, I figure it could look clean so I have first put plastic over the seats, then seat covers, (they do make super clear vinyl seat covers to order for your make and model car which ensures water resistance) and in the back seat and in the back of the estate I have the hammock bench seat covers that attach to your head rests and collect sand and grass seeds etc.
Of course the dogs like to be comfy so they have a polyester duvet, old sleeping bag or the equivalent so they can make a nest if napping during a long ride or a wait in the car.
They also have their toys and perhaps a chew or bone.
I suppose neither your wife or mother in law would ride in such a car, but I was well chuffed the other day when I opened the back of the car and an unknown dog walker stuck their head inside and said what a proper dog car it was.
‘Proper’ here in England is a good word meaning suits to a ‘T’ so the dogs and I were pleased.
Your animals have clearly had an amazing life full of love. Every family has its own way of doing things, but a happy, well loved pet is what really matters. And I agree, a proper dog car is a badge of honor!
Maybe a clever compromise could be made…..A gift to his wife and Mackie free car wash passes with interior detailing. You can also purchase a very cool back seat cover from Walgreens for about $10.00. Good luck Mackie
A good seat cover can save a lot of cleanup, and a few car wash passes never hurt. Sounds like Mackie comes out a winner either way!
I have two suggestions. One is to purchase a Furminator to get the loose hair off of the dog. This product is great! I got one for my Siamese/Tabby mix cat and my Golden Retriever mix dog. I can actually pet both of them without hair flying all over and the floors are staying clean! I have hardly any more “Hair Bunnies!” And they both love being combed with it! Check it out at http://www.furminator.com. Be prepared to have a bucket nearby to dispose of all of the hair! After one day, you will notice the difference! The second suggestion is one of those car seat covers by Guardian Gear. It hooks onto the head rest of the front seats and over the back of the rear seat, creating an area that will contain the dog hair. Of course a pet carrier would work, too. I also agree with the answers that Elaine (#65) gave. It is good advice! Good luck to your father-in-law!
Regular brushing can definitely help reduce loose hair around the house, especially during shedding season. Just use grooming tools gently and avoid over brushing, since they are meant to remove loose undercoat, not healthy fur. I love the idea of a car seat cover too. It makes cleanup so much easier. Thanks for sharing what has worked for you!
Well i think most people can be a little protective with the new fresh clean smelling car it does wear off some, most will say no eating in my new car wipe your feet before you enter no dogs allowed. How would the dog get to the vet if he needed one?. Perhaps he could offer to vacume it out on a regular basis for her and put in a new air cleaner from time to time, I think she could give in after some the newness wears off.
A good seat cover and a quick vacuum can go a long way. Most of us ease up once the new car smell fades. And yes, if your dog needs the vet, they have to get there somehow. Hopefully they can find a compromise that keeps everyone happy, including the pup.
Hello
As a big German shepherd with just as big a son if not bigger, my Mammy has a lovely dog trailer which we travel in, we go for long walks in the forest and lots of trips and you know something we would even settle for a drive in the trailer without getting out its so comfy and no problems with staying quiet or anything we can move around freely and we can see out as the door has a nice griddy part where we can see through. We love our trailer and would never want to travel in the car so my suggestion is for this man to get a nice little trailer for Mackie and all will be happy and he will have this trailer for any more doggy friends he may meet in the future.
Love Mandy & Eccle.
Sounds like you have the perfect travel wagon. Every dog is different, but if Mackie finds a trailer comfy and is introduced to it slowly, it could be a great option. Thanks for sharing your experience.
My husband surprised me with a new car (small SUV) as our large SUV has almost 200k miles, holds 45 gallons and only gets about 9 miles per gallon. The final “decision maker” on the new car (small suv) is that the rear seats fold down so that the dogs can have the entire back area. I went to Home Depot and purchased a piece of carpet and velcroed it to the back area to help protect it from sand/mud (although they would still be allowed in even if I didn’t have this). I have two dogs (shepherd mix and a lab mix) and I will take my dogs everywhere that is possible. These dogs are more than pets to me and I would not let anyone else tell me that I couldn’t take them. I feel very strongly on this issue, as do lots of others here. Take care & good luck to Mackie! He deserves to be with his family!!!!
Sounds like your dogs got the final vote on the new SUV. Wishing you lots of fun adventures together, muddy paws and all. They really are happiest by our side.
Having been a dog groomer for over 42 years I can make a couple of reccomendations. First of all WHY does your mother-in-law not want Mackie in the car? Because the dog’s is dirty? Doesn’t smell good? Sheds? If the dog were groomed at reasonable intervals at a reputable grooming shop and smelled and looked clean and beautiful I doubt there would be an objection. Why not take the dog in and have her spiffed up and then show her to your mother-in-law? She may not be able to refuse such a clean smelling dog. For myself, I would never put a car or any material object above the happiness of my animals. That’s why my car is covered in blankets and I have no room to sleep on my bed.
A good groom really can make a big difference for everyone involved. And I have to smile at the blanket covered car. I think a lot of us can relate to that.
Like Mother…Like Daughter ! You really can’t be that surprised !! If you haven’t done it over the past 10 years… you’re not going to change either of these womens’ “hearts” … now. Like I said before… you either have a compassionate and loving heart..or you don’t ! How did a Vet end up in such a family ? Too Bad !
Blessings,
Walela
Families can definitely be complicated. I still believe people can grow and change, even if it takes longer than we’d like. In the meantime, I’ll keep focusing on helping the animals who need us most. Thanks for your kindness and support.
Poor Mackie. He can come live with me. My dogs (2
10 month old Shi Tzu puppies, Annabelle & Bailey) and Molli(my 18 yr. old) & Spueaks(cat) live with me,go with me, we all keep each other company. I don’t expect all people to love them like I do but they are my “children” and I love being with them.Why do people have dogs and/or cats if they don’t want to be with them? I bring mine to work quite often. Guess I’m lucky. People miss out on alot when they don’t consider their animals family. Ilove getting your emails. I may soon be able to afford your books. Thank You for sharing.
………………..Sharon Mullins
Annabelle, Bailey, Molli, and Spueaks sound like they hit the jackpot with you. Every family is different, but our pets really do thrive on time, attention, and being part of the pack. Give your furry crew a big hug from me, and thank you for your kind words. No rush on the books. I am just happy you are here with us.