Should You Sleep With Your Dog? The Truth May Surprise You!

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Sleeping With Your Dog: Good or Bad?

Hi, Dr. Andrew Jones here. In today’s edition of “Veterinary Secrets," we’re going to tackle a burning question that many pet owners have: Should you let your dog sleep in your bed? It’s a great question, and I’ll give you some insight based on my experience and thoughts on the matter.

Before we dive in, let me set the scene for you. I’m currently at my brother’s house, farm-sitting for the next couple of weeks. He might not be too thrilled I’m using his bedroom for this video, but here I am! I’ll give you a quick tour so you can get a sense of where I’m at. In the distance, you’ll spot some cows—I’ve been checking on their calves, and I’ve even helped out two so far. There’s also irrigation sprinklers, sheep grazing, a farm truck, and of course, more farm things happening around here. But, let’s get back to the topic at hand: Should your dog be allowed to sleep in your bed?


The Big Debate: Should Your Dog Be in Your Bed?

There are two main schools of thought when it comes to allowing your dog in your bed. On one side, you have the more traditional and conservative dog trainers. These trainers argue that dogs should not sleep in your bed as it undermines your authority. They believe that dogs need to know their place in the household hierarchy, and sleeping on the bed can be seen as a challenge to that hierarchy.

On the other side, you have a more progressive approach, which I align with. I believe that your dog simply wants to be close to you because you are their most significant attachment. It’s natural for your dog to want to sleep near you because of the bond you share. That being said, training is still essential. Your dog should understand the basic rules of obedience, respect, and hierarchy. But that doesn’t necessarily mean they can’t sleep in your bed.


When It’s Okay: Bonding and Training Matter

For example, my first dog that I truly bonded with was a dog named Hoochie. He was adopted past the age of six months and was an SBCA dog that nobody really wanted. He always slept in my bed, and our bond was incredible. As I started my veterinary practice, I traveled all over, and Hoochie was by my side through it all. He was my constant companion, and he was well-trained, so there were no issues with him being in my bed.


When It’s Not Okay: Behavioral Issues and Training

Of course, there are situations where it’s not appropriate for your dog to sleep in your bed. If there are behavioral problems—like dominance aggression—this needs to be addressed. For instance, if your dog growls when you move your foot while they’re on the bed, or if they become aggressive when another person enters the room, then it’s important to address these issues. In such cases, it’s best to not allow your dog to sleep in your bed until the behavior is corrected.

Another example is my dog Lewis, who has anxiety, especially as he’s gotten older. He tends to lick and lick excessively, which disturbs our sleep. This kind of behavior is a sign that he’s stressed, and it can interfere with your rest. If your dog’s behavior negatively affects your sleep or well-being, then it’s best to keep them off the bed.


The Middle Ground: Finding a Compromise

If your dog is well-trained and their behavior is manageable, there’s no reason they can’t sleep in your bed—especially if it works for you and your family. For instance, Lewis sleeps in the bedroom but not necessarily on the bed. He’s too big and often too dirty for that, but he likes to be close. When I’m away at my brother’s farm, Lewis sleeps beside me, not in the bed, but he’s always near.


The Importance of Training and Consistency

From my experience working with thousands of dogs and their owners, I’ve noticed that many dogs who sleep in their owners’ beds are well-behaved. These dogs often have owners who are invested in their pets’ training and well-being. If you’re consistent with training and maintaining clear boundaries, allowing your dog to sleep in your bed can work just fine.


The Warmth Factor: A Cozy Benefit

And here’s a little bonus I’ll add—dogs can be great sources of warmth! On the first night at my brother’s place, it was freezing, and yes, Lewis ended up in the bed for a bit to keep me warm. It’s nice to have that extra heat, especially when the temperature drops at night.


Conclusion: It’s Up to You and Your Dog

In conclusion, whether your dog sleeps in your bed is a personal choice, and it depends on your dog’s behavior and your preferences. If it works for you and your dog is well-trained, there’s no harm in letting them sleep in your bed. However, if there are behavioral issues, such as aggression or anxiety, those need to be addressed before allowing them into your bed. Ultimately, it’s about finding a balance that works for both you and your dog.

Thanks for watching this edition of Veterinary Secrets on the topic of whether your dog should sleep in your bed. Louis and I are going to take a nap now. Bye!

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16 thoughts on “Should You Sleep With Your Dog? The Truth May Surprise You!”

  1. Yes, both our dogs do — either with us or the kids. They are part of the family 🙂

    Love your vids. Thank you Dr. Jones!

  2. Love your open attitude about this. My labs feel like they are protecting me.
    I love it. Works for me.

  3. Yes I have Dazy-girl my cat sleeping on my bed at the end of it where my feet are, then at times she will come and sleep by my pillow. I love and of course I don’t mind. If this makes her happy then I’m happy. Good video Dr. Andrew.

  4. Yes, my small female whippet, now 15 loves the bed and dogs love the same comforts as us.
    One is more likely to get germs- air-born on a train or from contact with other great apes including hospitals- they are the deadliest. My pet has never made me sick. In fact she has made me well. Apart from lowering blood pressure to a healthy level the unconditional love from a dog is precious.

  5. Love Dr Andrew’s common sense approach to this once very rigid issue. Most dog persons will tell absolutely don’t allow Fido in the bed (which I’ve never adhered.) While Dr Andrew has a sensible view that lends itself to individuality and freshness, treating patients like the unique people they really are. Thanks Doc for acknowledging that every dog is different!!!

  6. Yes, our 10 yr old Shih Tzu Jack is a member of our pack. He sleeps at the foot of our bed, or sometimes curls up in the crook of my arm if its cold. He does has a warm, fluffy Kong bed, and splits the night between our and his bed. He is a loving, loyal member of our family.

  7. You are just too cool! I am a Vet Tech and love your videos, advice and your practical approach to Veterinary medicine. Wish we had more like you in my neck of the woods. I must say I’m a little jealous of your city free lifestyle and personally hope to make that change for myself in the next few months. I love how you obviously love “the beasts” as I affectionately call them. Keep up the great work. You brighten my days!

  8. Hahahahaha! I love it Dr Andrew!!! All of my dog’s I’ve had,and have now, have been my bed partner! I also wanna tell you how much I enjoye the farm.Enjoy your stay. Praying for safe trip back home.?

  9. My two dogs sleep with me every night. I have been sleeping with my pets since I was a kid, I wouldn’t want it any other way! My year old dog Belle sleeps on and off in her crate in my bedroom, that is her choice she is free to choose. My older dog Vozzy sleeps by me all night, he has some anxiety problems this keep him calm.

  10. Honey and Elsa love cuddling in bed with me, especially during the colder weather. Both start under the covers, Elsa loves being around my feet and Honey loves being beside me. Both are free to move as they wish. I have always shared my bed with my four legged companions. All have regularly received veterinary care. For me, I am far more likely to ‘catch’ something from the humans I meet daily, than from sharing my bed with my beloved four legged companions.

  11. Not only was my wolf, Apache, my constant night time companion, but when my 3 young grandchildren visited we all cuddled, and frolicked and laughed and slept in a tangle. All 3, now adults, have great affection and respect for all living forms and frequently reminisce on how much fun those times were. Wolf – whispering grannies from Long Island, NY

  12. All my dogs have always slept in bed with me including my cat! It’s so natural for me and the best feeling!

  13. Yes 6 of our furry kids sleeps with us on our bed. Before my kitty was PTS due to blood cancer he also slept on the bed with all the other furry kids.

  14. Each one of my dog, the last 60 years have always shared a part of my bed. Now that I am a widow they have taken over the ‘other side’ of my twin bed that is tied up together. They are family and have every right to all that will be of comfort to them. Dr. Jones you show the world how to live, love and laugh with our companions. That is why you are so very special to all of us.

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